Listen

When people talk, they want to be heard.
Opinions, ideas, and reactions––even when the come from the right place––often confuse the conversation.
Sometimes a friend just need you to say, “I understand; I’m here for you.”
Silence speaks volumes.

Me and My Shadow: The Collaboration

I’m working on joining forces with my alter ego;
The short, fat kid with acne who still lives inside of me––making occasional appearances in moments of pressure, fear, or uncomfortable circumstances.
In honor of Valentine’s Day, I’m going to give my little butterball the love and attention he needs.
Rather than trying to hide that version of myself (or worse, pretend he never existed), I’m going to listen to him.  I’m going to be the “cool” best friend that he thought he never had in middle school.
His rage, insecurity, passion, and need to be heard has helped motivate my life;
Now I’m in a position to help him heal.
I’ve done the work.  I accept who I am.  I’m not afraid to expose the dark imperfections.
It’s time.

I HATE When...

People put words in my mouth!
Don't tell me what you think I'm going to say, listen to what I'm saying.
And yes, I "sound angry," because I AM ANGRY!
That's what happens when people tell me what they "think" I'm feeling.
R-A-G-E!

You Can't Force Magic!

What can I say? I can't force something that isn't happening...

It's funny, because I'm rarely at a loss for words or something to talk about in life. However, there are those random days when I subconsciously decided that it's my turn to shut up and let somebody else talk...

Today is one of those days. I can't think of anything wonderful, important or funny to write about.

And I hate forcing dialogue just to hear myself speak (or write,) then it becomes like watching Elisabeth Hasselbeck on The View...

So friends, today is a rare day where I'm going to shut up and listen! ...maybe.