Tuesday, September 30, 2014
I'm Growing Up... I think.
I always thought I'd grow up faster, especially because I was wearing three-piece suits as a nine year old. But something shifted for me when I got to high school. I decided it was okay to be young, wild, creative and free...
I guess that's what happens when you're a performer attending a performing arts high school.
I'm happy that I had those crazy adventures in Chicago, Europe and New York City, however it wasn't until I moved back to Los Angeles when I realized, I'm ready to start living an adult life.
I don't miss the parking pass; carry (four months worth of) your dirty laundry to a laundry mat; only eat out during Happy Hour, hours part of my life.
I may not be the next Hollywood heartthrob, but I have an awesome life and a fabulous career doing what I love.
And today, that just feels awesome.
I'd still like to take the day off, and go to Disneyland though.
Monday, September 29, 2014
Motivated!
Taking that first step in any direction is hard, however it will help motivate the spirt into action.
Action equals results.
So my choices today:
Sit around waiting for a phone to ring.
OR
Pick up the phone and start ringing-up some potential opportunities.
The only way to succeed, is by going after what you want!
Sunday, September 28, 2014
Standing On Principle
Sometimes standing on principle just pisses people off.
You have to ask yourself,
Do I want to be right?
Or
Why do I give a F_ck?
If the goal is to prove a point, take a less passive-aggressive approach-
Articulate your case and move on!
Saturday, September 27, 2014
Be Careful What You Wish For
I started sending out emails looking for leads,
I just wanted to stay active in between promoting my book and choreographing and teaching master classes on the weekends.
It's not that I wasn't pleased with my time for yoga, socializing with friends and catching up on a lot of reality TV-
My mind just needs distractions.
Well, low and behold, I received responses from all of my outreach, and now I'm over-booked and have no time to breathe.
Be careful what you wish for!
I'd finish this blog post, but I don't have
Friday, September 26, 2014
Observation on Balance
There's no time to play!
Unless you work your ass off to shit done, so that you can sneak away from work to go to a Friday Happy Hour and a date night movie...
#Balance
Thursday, September 25, 2014
Recognizing You're Growing Up
How do you get out?
You cause a bigger storm, and level the playing field...
Then you move to a new state. Or peer group!
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
Rise and Shine
...is what I repeat as I peel myself from my bed with my eyes glued shut.
As a classic overachiever I set high expectations. I refuse to fail because I didn't work hard enough.
I've come to the decision that I will do everything in my power to accomplish my goals in life-
If that means a 6 AM wake-up call, then so be it.
The only thing more annoying than an early morning wake-up call, is not succeeding because I was too lazy.
Tuesday, September 23, 2014
Loyalty In Business?
I believe in standing by my colleagues during conflict-
Defending them and our relationship.
But in business, I'm learning that sometimes you have to cut that cord.
It can be painful, but it's more devastating to go down with a burning ship that never gave you your own cabin anyway.
Monday, September 22, 2014
Daily Reminder
I've blogged this before, and I'll blog it again, because it is a reminder that continues to evade me from time to time.
Once I remember that I can release the shitty circumstances and reinvent my outlook, I seem to thrive.
So, I'll ask myself this question:
Why the f_ck would I choose to make life any harder?
Dump that nonsense and move on!
Sunday, September 21, 2014
YOGAtta Be Kidding Me!
Leave it to LA to turn it into a competitive, catty environment with strobe lights and club beats...
I am so NOT down with that dog!
Saturday, September 20, 2014
Saturdays at Starbucks
The Hollywood socialites are fast asleep. While the overachieving fitness fanatics are sprinting past the homeless man that sits outside, eagerly awaiting an act of kindness from a European tourist.
Meanwhile, I stand in a line thirty-people-deep for my first Pumpkin Spice Latte of the year.
Starbucks is the McDonalds of the 21st Century.
And just like my elementary years with the Value Meal No. 2, I am #addicted!
Friday, September 19, 2014
Emotional Much?
#ICryAtHallmarkCommercials
Thursday, September 18, 2014
Fear
It slowly destroys the imagination-
Replacing peace of mind with confusion.
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
When Life Caves In On You...
Dig yourself out and keep on going.
Or
Give up the fight and get buried alive.
#ThePowerOfAChoice
Tuesday, September 16, 2014
The View is Looking Good! ...Again!
Until they dumped Rosie for a Republican schmoe,
This season returns with a new logo, a new set and a new Republican, too!
But, I'm back on board for the Rosie times TWO!
#TheViewIsBack
Monday, September 15, 2014
The Aftermath...
Everywhere you look there is a stack of something gross and crusty.
Half-eaten containers of food underneath furniture.
Overflowing trash bin.
Board game remnants strewn about.
And a funky smell fills the air... What is that? It's nothing that was prepared by me!
#CleanUpIsGross
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Saturday, September 13, 2014
Friday, September 12, 2014
Motivate! ...NOW!
Life is full of ups and downs. Especially in the entertainment industry.
I fight to maintain my disgustingly positive energy, even in the midst of a dry-spell or a shitstorm!
Everything seemed so much easier in my twenties.
Now, I actually have to give myself a pep-talk to get to yoga, class or a meeting...
I guess that's what happens when you hit thirty- you allow the reality of reality to sink in.
Well, I have a choice. I refuse to be a bitter thirty-something complainer-
I'm ready for my next adventure. But the only way that's happening is with the motivation to get up off my ass and do something about it.
#NotGivingUpThatEasy
Thursday, September 11, 2014
Remembering
I woke up to the sound of crying, my roommate had been up earlier than I, and saw the first plane fly into the World Trade tower.
We watched in horror as the second plane flew into the second tower-
We knew then it was no accident.
More than the fear, the overwhelming smell of smoke and destruction, and the looming uncertainty, I will remember how my New Yorkers and America united that day.
I was never more grateful to have my friends, who after that day, will forever be my family. We cried together. We comforted one another. We prayed. We told stories, which turned into much needed laughter.
On that day, we lost our innocents. Through it all, I had my friends, who from then on, I consider members of my family.
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
Done. and Done!
But I have to take it a step further, of course...
Now, I play a game to see if I can cross-off all of my "to do's" before 10 AM.
If I win, I get to cut work early and take a dip in the pool.
Today I claim victory!
Sure, I could be working on a plethora of important projects, but there's always tomorrow for that.
Tuesday, September 9, 2014
An Open Letter To The Universe
I realize I'm just a microscopic piece of dust in the grand scheme of everything, but I was hoping you could just help me shine with the stars and the planets.
Somehow I've bounced out of alignment, and I really need to get back on track.
Oh, and I wouldn't mind if Mercury would stop going into retrograde (whatever that means) my friends keep telling me this is a major problem, and I don't give a shit.
Thanks,
Matthew
Monday, September 8, 2014
A Poem About Mondays
Slowly I weed through the spam;
It's almost lunchtime!
Sunday, September 7, 2014
When Opportunity Knocks...
Answer the door in your hottest outfit!
Oh, and be outrageously confident, sincerely charming and ridiculously over-prepared!
Saturday, September 6, 2014
Friday, September 5, 2014
There's No Business Like Showbusiness!
Until I remember that a shadier person created the loophole to be used!
What's that old saying? "Fake it, till you make it."
...and leverage everything you've got!
Thursday, September 4, 2014
Pep Talk!
Six of which I spend sleeping-
Which means I have eighteen usable hours in a day.
More than enough time to get shit done!
So I have two options really,
1. I can sit around and complain about what's not "working" for me.
or
2. I can get motivated, take action and make "it" happen.
Good talk, Matthew!
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
Focus On The Work
Is directly proportionate to the outcome.
Passion, detail and determination combined with pure hard work usually produces something powerful.
Hold onto the feeling of accomplishment. That, is success.
The praise and attention (which may or may not come) does not make something better, it's just the icing on an already delicious cake.
Tuesday, September 2, 2014
It's Tuesday... Get to Work!
I can't start a work week on day two!
These unanswered phone calls aren't going to return themselves,
So it leaves me no choice, I have to do Monday's work today, and the first thing I do on Monday mornings is walk to Starbucks to ease my way back into the work week!
Monday, September 1, 2014
#FloorBeds
A bed made out of pillows on the floor. Used for cuddling puppies and watching movies; enjoyed most on holidays and weekends. Perfect for holiday weekends.